Book 4: 《里仁》 Li Ren (Brotherliness)
《里仁》 Passage 4.26
子游曰：「事君數，斯辱矣，朋友數，斯疏矣。」
Legge Translation (1861)
Ziyou said: "In serving a prince, frequent remonstrances lead to disgrace. Between friends, frequent reproofs make the friendship distant."